
As someone who hates and avoids as much as possible any form of public speaking, I decided to attend the ‘Speaking Out!’ talk held by Girl Geek Dinners on 23rd November.
Girl Geek Dinner is a group of cool chicks working in IT related sectors, aiming at “uniting, supporting, learning and having fun as a female in the tech industry.”
Their most recent event, and the first Girl Geek Dinners event I’ve ever attended, invited 3 great speakers with successful careers in the tech industry who gave us a lecture on public speaking. They covered topics like tips for not only getting over nerves, but also feeling confident making presentations, or pitching business ideas, etc.
Claire Lee, the first speaker, a Developer Evangelist for Microsoft, shared insight as to how she became successful in such a male-dominated industry, among other things.
What I found to be the most useful information she shared with us, however, was that she used to be terrified of public speaking.
Watching her stand confidently before us, it was hard to believe that at any time public speaking was something she really struggled with, but she offered some advice (however obvious it may seem) that explained how she overcame her fear: you just have to put yourself out there and do it.
Literally deciding one day to no longer be a ‘shrinking violet’ and put yourself out there, is much simpler said than done, but sometimes the best advice really is that simple.
Both of the other speakers- Margaret Gold, director at Goldmobile Innovation, and Christian Heilmann, Developer Evangelist at Yahoo, offered equally helpful advice. Just watching the speakers themselves was a lesson in public speaking in itself, because although each one of them had different methods, they were all effective public speakers for different reasons.
Despite the speakers sometimes disagreeing with each other on the most effective public speaking methods, there was one thing which they all agreed upon: the best public speakers aren’t necessarily the most knowledgeable.
Good presentations were good because the speakers were:
a). passionate about what they were talking about and
b). they were just themselves and weren’t trying overly hard to impress.
Because when it comes down to it, likability is often one of the most important factors in how we determine whether we think a speech or lecture was effective or not.
Finding ways to relate the information to a personal story or experience is always key in connecting with your audience.
This is actually good news, because it eliminates the need for hours of over planning and preparation that many sometimes think is necessary for a good presentation (this doesn’t mean you don’t need to do your homework, just that the hours of trying to memorize your presentation isn’t necessary).
The bad news is, listening to presentations about public speaking won’t actually make me a better speaker, only practice will do that…
What do you think makes a good public speaker? Any tips? Let me know your thoughts…



December 15th, 2010 by 














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